hey i had a horrible day
I dont usually write things about this nature on here but i just wanted to share what happened to me and my daughter yesterday. Yesterday i had her baby shower and all the woman were in the house and some of the men were outside, and i know yous are wondering why were there men there well some of the woman couldnt drive and some were from out of town. anyways everthing was going wonderful unitl about 2 hours into the shower my daughters father was out side getting so drunk it was horrible. well he came in to the house and inbarressed me my daughter, Had my daughter balling his mom wanted to hide behind a chair...i was just furous!!! anyways after about a hour of trying we finially got him away from my house.. anyways i realize something alot of us came from messed up house holds and my parents drank how come i dont really drink but i was attracted to it. and as we grow up i think back to when i was young that my childhood is coming back to haunt me sometimes. I am very grateful that i went to milton hershy i just wish they would of showed us more about lifes troubles and not hide us on lots of land.and maybe i could understand some of the things better that i have to deal with now.
thanks for reading this i just was having a sad day and wanted to share with yous thank you
I'll save you a seat.
A pound of 20's slice thin would help me! 
they need more help than you can give clint 
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Do you wont to learn how to speel?
I can't spell 
I'm going back to my little bus.
But we can still spell better than you! Right Creig (I mean Craig)
lolThe Steelers are the best lol 
Ahhhh..... yeah shure....... same thing
Lisa, I resemble that remark! 
i think you and creig are both full of crap lolThe Steelers are the best
Psycho, Psychic they are the same thing right?
, you must be psychic
I knew you were going to say that! I just had to egg you on
OK I better leave that one alone
She's just good at faking it :-]
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Oh' Come on Lisa, when did you start being a good girl? :-]
i know a few other places yous could be droped off but murf may not like where the places are and may take away my merits so ill be a good girl tonight.
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You are so right! We should be dropped off at a lake or stream with a cooler and a fishing pole so we can't mess up anything!
yes you are very special
I'm special :-p
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Yes I did ride the short bus a lot
I'm special
first vicki your right about the short bus it did and does make us closer
2nd crieg you must of road the short bus alot!
and linda you can make jokes cause it does make me look back and feel much better cause the day could of been alot worst. linda i start work next monday at the medical center as soon as i foind out my day off douring the week, well got together for lunch okay with heather, and im gonna get to your shop soon my youngest wants a hair cut and i keep putting it off cause i want to come to your salon. i cant wait to see yous it will be reaaly nice.
how was your anniversary? wonderful i hope
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allowed to something as special as a baby shower. Just kidding, I had another joke to say... ok here it is, maybe he got drunk because he had to COME to a baby shower. 
I know i shouldn't joke but i wanted to make you laugh. I think it is great you had a nice shower for her, and i know when the dust and emotions settle she will never forget the love you put into it. I unfortunately had Zero family members at my shower!!! and i cannot understand for the life of me why my own mother wouldn't make an effort, let alone everyone else? But you did, so try to remember all the good things that took place that day. PM me your address please, maybe when you and heather get together i can come too??? On MON AND WEDS I don't have to be to work until 2PM.
They definitely bring you closer to your class mates (space wise)
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I don't get it
What's wrong with short buses
I'm soooooo glad that I'm not normal
It would really be boring!
short buses are starting so seem more and more normal than some of the crap ive been having to go through.
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And I thought it was the short bus that made us special...thanks for clearing that up.
I can relate having dated every drunk or druggie in gay culture but realize it is and will always be about your daughter and not the ex. It sounds like the typical salvo but you will laugh at this as he may stay further out of her/your life and create wonderful memories for her children away from all of that.
Remember, you have this great big family to talk to at any time. We might have our own thoughts/feelings about the School but ya know we're always there for each other and thats what makes us special.
*hugs you tight*
this too will pass
I am so sorry that you had to deal with that on what should've been a great time with your daughter...not exactly the memories you care to remember down the road. Unfortunately we can predict how someone will behave. Keep your head up and know that you aren't responsible for him acting like an derriere. We keep saying that we're gonna do lunch... let's make it happen. I start back to work next week, but I'm free everyday between 10a and 2p. So let me know what works for you...we can meet somewhere in the middle if it's easier.
thank yous its weird but i dont mind telling yous on here how bad my day was cause i knew yous would understand.
my daughters got about 4 more weeks and ill be a grammy cant wait to spoil him rotten and give him back
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It is hard to deal with sometimes, but hopefully today is better. 
about the very same thing this morning, how we spend our lives trying to not repeat our parent's lives. Our family is loaded with drug addicts and alcoholics.
Unfortunately we can't control the actions of others. While it's a downright shame that her dad got drunk, it's a good thing that you weren't getting drunk with him. It shows her that good things happen when we act responsibly and bad things happen when we don't.
When is the baby due? Is this your first grandchild? I have to say, being a grandma is awesome!
Sorry you had a sucky day. I know what you mean. I grew up around drugs and drunks all of my life. I watched my sister go down that road and knew that is NOT what I wanted. I was determined to graduate HS (I did) and not be a teen mother (I had my first when I was 21 and out on my own). These were big accomplishments for me since that didn't happen too often in my family (atleast the family I knew) I also didn't do drugs. I drank as a teen (drank alot of people under the table) but I can honestly say that I did more drinking before I was 21 than all the years since I have turned 21. I guess I got that out of my system. But in turn, I always kept a job and was never brought home by the cops or put my self in any situation I couldn't handle. I attribute my own good judgment and the chance at being in a "normal" environment at the Milt for my set mind and determination.
As far as my relationships, yes I have made bad decisions and I'm fixing that now. Big changes are happening in the next month that I can't talk about right now but it is all for the good and I will post in full to everyone when the time comes. Keep your tissues handy.
Hay Lisa, sorry to here about your bad day. 
I think your right about most of us coming from messed up house holds. I know I did. My Dad was a drunk, I'd say alcoholic but they go to meetings :-]
But I think that's what kept me from going down that road. I didn't wont to make the same mistakes he did. I've made my share of mistakes but just not the same ones he made. I guess that's just part of life, we all make mistakes. But not all of us learn from them. Take what you can from this and call it life experience
I think we need to upgrade the bus! Can we get some softer seats? And air conditioning would be nice. Clint is smelling a little ripe during these summer days!