...since I've been here, but life goes on, and I've been running to keep up!
I stumbled across this today, and thought that it might help someone else refocus -- it certainly bruised a few of my own toes...:
... On Happiness
Make up your mind to be happy. Learn to find pleasure in simple things.
Make the best of your circumstances. No one has everything, and everyone has some sorrow mixed in with the gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears.